I am DELIGHTED to report that this problem is now resolved, and I wanted to update anyone who spots this or experiences a similar problem on how this issue was resolved.
To re-cap, I wanted to update the firmware on a 2010 VP2 WIRED console from 3.2 to 3.88, in order to fix an issue with the Davis Weatherlink App on my phone not reporting the 24 hour rainfall figure.
1) I downloaded the VP2_Cabled_3_88.exe version from Davis.
2) When I tried to run it from my PC which is on my home network, after locating the device via tcp/ip I clicked run but the updater reported that it could not identify the Firmware version and date, then threw up a CRC error.
3) I powered the console down, rebooted it and tried again. This time everything seemed to be fine, so I clicked Start.
4) It started running correctly and then at about page 44 it stopped and reported an error. There was nothing that I could do other than click Cancel.
5) at this point the VP2 console had a blank screen. I powered it down, rebooted it but it only beeped once, and the screen remained blank.
6) I tried to re-run the updater but despite finding the device it reported a model number not found error.
7) I then started to look at this forum and found reference to the fact that you needed to close the Weatherlink program running on the PC before attempting a firmware upgrade... no reference was made to this gem in the Davis firmware upgrade instructions...
8 ) I contacted Davis in the US and they put me in touch with three UK suppliers who I was told would be able to help.
9) I contacted two of them and neither felt able to help... At this stage I did not speak to Prodata, which was the third company Davis had suggested I contacted.
10) After having read various forums (some very old) it appeared that the only way I would be able to re-flash the VP2 was to get hold of a discontinued hardware updater. By chance I managed to locate one and bought it.
11) I contacted Davis support again to obtain the actual firmware that the updater could handle. A very helpful guy called Bruce advised me to first of all try an earlier upgrade version 1.9, and he provided a link to it. This unfortunately did not work as the file appeared to be corrupt. He then provided a link to 3.58 and as a final option, a very early version 1.8.
12) Version 3.58 failed in the same way as 3.88 HOWEVER the update from PC version 1.8 worked perfectly and after running it, I had a live console once again.
13) After upgrading to 1.8, I then powered the console down, then up again and this time re-tried the upgrade to the latest version, 3.88. The upgrade ran perfectly and I now have a fully working VP2 console once again!
14) I never needed to use the hardware updater at all.
This is the version that got my CABLED VP2 working from dead...
http://toolbox.davisinstruments.com/downloads/Weather/firmware/VP2%20Cabled/DirectFromPC_vp2_cabled_1_80.zipHope this long winded explanation helps someone else in the same situation. I have suggested to Davis that they update their instructions to make it clear that you must close the Weatherlink program (and I guess any other programs that may try and access the VP2 console) at the same time as you upgrading the firmware.
Finally, I would add that Prodata in the UK offered to work with Davis to fix the problem and their support were very helpful even though in the end I did not take them up on their offer of Help. If I buy any more weather equipment, they will get my business - a highly recommended company.