IMHO...the issue of the station temperature for the most part can be resolved by investing in a quality station, i.e. Davis, Rainwise. They have dealt with the temperature variation and solar shields for years. When reading a station specs and it talks about placing the temp/RH sensor in shade, more than likely you're dealing with a lower quality station. On the other hand, if you find a spot in the shade that works for you, then you're happy. I believe you'll also find that no 2 stations side by side will record the same exact readings.
As far as the wind, I tend to go lower. All of my stations are ground level, tripod or fence mast mount, away from obvious obstructions. In my personal case, that's why I call it 'Backyard Weather, for the sensors are in the backyard, not rooftop. Most of the folks that I have read of placing a station on top of the roof or some high point, regret it later when it needs maintenance. Good luck!