I use a telescopic mast, it is steel guyed 2x3, and i believe its 45mm (1.77'') at the top, i did check to see what it was like preguyed in 45mph gusts and it wouldnt have been suitable for wind let alone a rain bucket, since guying it, its sound, i reckon i could get away with the bucket at 10m if i felt so inclined
Defo look at amateur radio masts, but to do it non-guyed and have stability at 10m (33ft) i would look at the more expensive tilt/telescoping lattice masts, normally plenty of second user ones about...