Broadstairs, thanks... but...
although I hear what you are saying, and you can clearly tell my Linux experience is from times gone by.... probably 20yrs ago, when Fedora was new (may still have just been Redhat!), I did dabble with PSUbunto when the PS3 was new, which was my last foray in that world, then they killed it. I think SUSE was the only one I got working reliably, but overall it was just a PITA - haven't tried it since OpenSUSE became a thing.
Appreciate the desktop environment has matured, but I can tell just from the instructions in the wiki and on this forum that the reliance on the CLI is still ever-present - all the installation and update guides are 'sudo' this, 'get' that and while it may all work better (I seem to recall there was a distro where the coder actually commented the next step was to "sacrifice a goat" because it failed so often, only matched by other commit comments where "I don't know why this works, but don't touch it or it will break and you will burn in hell").
But, that is just me being lazy at the end of the day and the RPI environment may be much better, simply as it's so well supported and there's a lot of interest - my main issue is not having a Linux box to run 24/7, unless I try and break into my NAS (which is tempting....) so would need to be the PI route.