Thirty feet is a lot better than ten feet. I know I brought up the 100 foot guideline from CWOP, but it's a rare homeowner who can actually meet that. In my suburban township, being thirty feet or so from pavement is probably typical for most yards, given the lot sizes, driveways, patios and so on. If it's representative for your area, too, then accept that you are measuring what people in your neighborhood are experiencing.
The thickness of the asphalt, in my mind, plays less of a role than the blackness of it, acting as a heat absorber more than a reflector. Where I live, they scrape off a top layer of asphalt and then replace it when they repave, so the thickness doesn't change. (They can now reprocess the removed asphalt, too.)
You are the only person I have heard complain when they "finally" repave your street. That's what owning a PWS can do to you...
Rich K.