Hey, I understand. Sometimes we've just gotta let go of things and look for the next windmill to battle with.
As for not being able to fix things... When Microsoft killed DOS I lost my ability to "fix" things...back in '90-what? I did manage to get Win3.1 installed and have managed ever since then. But, when I could write a simple batch file to do things (and I was and never have been a "code" writer) and suddenly was presented with files and things I'd never heard of, it was intimidating. I've been flyin' by the seat of my pants ever since. Tinkering with
www.beeweather.com and the associated files has got me "coding"(?) a little bit...well, at least inputing things in the correct (most of the time) spots. Php files are amazing to me.
Shoot, my cellphone is a hand-me-down $30 Walmart Straighttalk with a screen on it about the size of a 1x1 postage stamp and scratched so badly the "touch screen" has problems working.
So, yeah, whether you have the IOD on your website definitely isn't a deal killer...go on to other things. Maybe revisit it in a month or so and maybe something down the line has flushed out and things will click again for it.
Hang in there!
Ed